She Mocked My Dutch At Work Until HR Asked Her To Speak French-eirian

The first week Kathy worked with us, she moved through the office like she had already been promoted.

She had a loud laugh, a white blazer, and a way of leaning back in her chair that made every room feel like a stage.

I was used to strong personalities at work.

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I was not used to someone inventing an entire version of herself before she had even learned where we kept the extra printer paper.

Our office sat outside Nashville, in a low glass building between a dentist, a shipping broker, and a sandwich shop that smelled like onions by eleven every morning.

The job was not glamorous.

We managed vendor contracts, client updates, and project timelines for a company that sold industrial equipment across several regions.

Still, I liked it.

I liked the clean systems, the small rituals, and the fact that nobody cared where I had grown up until Kathy decided to make Europe her personal crown.

I had been raised in Belgium.

My mother was from Flanders, my father from Wallonia, and our kitchen table shifted between Dutch and French depending on who was annoyed, who was hungry, and which grandparent had called.

English came later.

By the time I moved to the United States, I could think in three languages and feel homesick in all of them.

I did not talk about it much at work.

It was not a secret.

It just did not come up between purchase orders and Monday reports.

Then Kathy started.

On her fourth day, a few of us were in the break room when Mia mentioned she was giving up on planning a summer trip because every flight seemed expensive and every plan seemed fragile.

Kathy made a little sound, half laugh and half sigh.

“I could never stop traveling,” she said. “Europe is basically my second home.”

Ben asked where she liked to go.

She listed countries like she was dropping jewelry onto a table.

The Netherlands.

France.

Norway.

Belgium, though she pronounced it with an extra flourish that made Mia glance at me.

Then Kathy said the lack of travel was making her scared she would lose her languages.

Ben, who was kind and curious in the dangerous way kind people can be, asked which languages.

Kathy smiled.

“Dutch, French, and Norwegian,” she said. “Native level. People over there never know I’m American until I tell them.”

For one bright second, I was happy.

I almost never got to speak Dutch at work.

When you carry a childhood language into another country, it can sit inside you like a sealed room.

Someone says one familiar word and suddenly the lights come on.

So I looked at Kathy and said in Dutch, “Oh, that’s fun. We have something in common.”

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