My twin sister and I were eight months pre/gnant-felicia

My Mother Demanded the Money I Saved for My Baby—Then She Hit Me and Everything Changed

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“Give your sister the money,” my mother said, loud enough for the whole backyard to hear.

The music stopped.

Conversations faded.

Nearly thirty guests at my twin sister’s baby shower turned toward us.

I stood beside the swimming pool, one hand resting on my eight-month pregnant belly, trying to understand what I had just heard.

“Mom,” I said quietly, “I already told you no.”

Her expression hardened.

“You have eighteen thousand dollars saved. Your sister needs it more than you do.”

I looked at my twin sister, Rachel, hoping she would say something.

She didn’t.

Instead, she crossed her arms and looked away.

The money my mother was talking about wasn’t extra cash.

It wasn’t an inheritance.

It wasn’t a gift.

It was every dollar I had managed to save for my baby over three years.

I had worked overtime.

I had skipped vacations.

I had sold my jewelry after my husband passed away two years earlier.

Every dollar represented security for my unborn child.

Rachel, on the other hand, had spent money as quickly as she earned it.

Designer handbags.

Luxury vacations.

A new SUV she couldn’t afford.

Now, only weeks before giving birth, she was drowning in debt.

And somehow my family had decided that I should rescue her.

“She’s your sister,” my mother said again.

“And this is my baby,” I replied.

Several guests looked uncomfortable.

One woman quietly stepped away from the table.

I wished I could do the same.

“You’re being selfish,” my mother snapped.

I couldn’t believe what I was hearing.

Selfish?

For wanting to protect my child?

For wanting to keep the money I had earned?

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